Do you have a boy- or girlfriend,how did you met?

[Christy]

Two years is a very long time Fabian. I'm amazed you had the patience to wait.
I once fell in love with a guy. He was the brother of a friend of mine. But he never fall in love with me, I even had the feeling he was very angry at me, because I fell in love with him.
his sister (my friend) must have told him, I liked him, cause I never did. But I liked that guy for more then 2,5 years. But he can get some scary ilness, cause I don't care anymore. Although it's though, because I meet him every sunday in church...:S

[Christy]

Two years is a very long time Fabian. I'm amazed you had the patience to wait.
I once fell in love with a guy. He was the brother of a friend of mine. But he never fall in love with me, I even had the feeling he was very angry at me, because I fell in love with him.
his sister (my friend) must have told him, I liked him, cause I never did. But I liked that guy for more then 2,5 years. But he can get some scary ilness, cause I don't care anymore. Although it's though, because I meet him every sunday in church...:S

[Christy]

whoops, pushed the button two times.(sorry)

[Fabian]

Falling deeply in love with someone which doesn't love you back is a horrible feeling...
But even if you don't believe it, you will find someone which you love even more and that one will love you back!

[Christy]

whauw, sounds like a poet, fabian You're probably right, but I haven't seen it yet. I know the feeling of someone not returning your feelings, but I haven't found someone who loved me back...I quess not al stories are fairytales....

[scorpii]

Yeah I do know that feeling too... But I hope you're right Fabian, 'cause I think I'll fall in love again one day, that's for sure!

[mary]

I also do not have a boyfriend.

Probably because I'm too shy to tell a boy that I love him.

Maybe he doesn't love me and not even likes me.
Maybe he doesn't love me, but at least likes me as a friend.
And, as I also have the tendency to like the introverted, eccentric, mysterious and complicated boys, maybe he lives the same problem than me and don't come to me because of his shyness.

Then, most of the times, I stay with the doubt: "He loves me? He loves me not?"

I already liked a friend, but I never told him anything, for don't ruin the friendship.
I already liked a boy that already had a girlfriend. And I also didn't tell him anything, because I didn't want to come between them.

Well, I think I'm too complicated. And I'm not sure if I really need a boyfriend in this moment.
The last time I've been really interested in someone it was a long time ago.
Now, I'm more worried about my college and other things.

But I wish someday I find someone that I'll truly love and which will love me too!


We cannot lose the hope, right?

[Christy]

yeah, I know that 'complicated' story. It's always the same d*mn thing. Or they already have a girlfriend, or they like me, but just as a friend, or they don't like me at all.

But you know Mary, being shy isn't all bad, cause, when it comes to matters like this, I'm not shy at all. In fact, I walk right at 'em. But most boys get scared or something, and they get back...so...to be shy is not bad at all....

A lot of people tell me to be patient, and just wait. They say that my 'price charming' will come in time. And maybe they're right. But I jus haven't seen it so far! And to be honest, I don't know if I'm willing to wait so long, for something that might noteven be worth waiting for....
I'm not some pessimist or something, but that's just the way I feel :-)

[graceland1957]

We met at a group gathering at someone's house.
A group of Elvis Presley fans.
That was in February 2001.
We started dating a few times, went on holidays a few times.
And we got along very well.
In August 2005 while we were on vacation in the USA i asked her to marry me.
And she said YES.
In May 2006 we got married.

[scorpii]

Oh! That's so sweet!

[Christy]

You know, I think it's very funny, that some people meet and like each other whyle being busy with a hobby. It must be very easy when you both have the same interests. Although I also think it's funny when two poles have a strong attraction.